Men vs. Women: Sexism, Perception, and Reality

Posted on April 14, 2013 by Bruce Sallan

I love writing this blog series. Why? Because I get to poke holes in the conventional, contemporary politically correct stereotypes. And, I sincerely believe that the differences between men and women are genuine and trying to conflate them to fit some academic model of humanity simply denies our humanity. And, for those that know me, I like to provoke…discussion. I’m still waiting for some ardent feminists or Women’s Studies students or professors to weigh in with their comments. So, shall we take on Sexism? Yeah, let’s go for it and I’m going to reveal an embarrassing story along the way!

Shopping for Valentine’s Day

Posted on January 25, 2013 by Bruce Sallan

Valentine’s Day may be our woman’s favorite holiday, but it is definitely NOT “Dad’s” favorite or, for that matter, mine. Shopping for Valentine’s Day is never fun. I wrote about it last here in the column, Guys Hate Valentine’s Day.

Men vs. Women: Sex – Seven Differences in the Sack

Posted on January 7, 2013 by Bruce Sallan

Men vs. Women. So, you’re asking what took me so long to get to this topic for this ongoing series. My answer is simple. It’s too easy. Men and women are different. Yes, I repeat that in every column in this series, but it bears repeating. Perhaps there’s no more stark a difference than in how we approach sexuality and how we practice/act upon our sexual needs and urges.

Men vs. Women: Differences Between Our Communication Skills

Posted on October 29, 2012 by Bruce Sallan

The first article in this new series of differences between men and women took on how we handle money. This one is about how we communicate. As with every article in this ongoing series, I continue to believe that men and women are inherently different, due to our genetics, biology, and to some degree our environment and/or upbringing. However, I don’t believe the latter plays a big factor except when it’s horrific, like in the case of child abuse, severe disabilities, and/or illness.

When is a Lie, a LIE?

Posted on October 1, 2012 by Bruce Sallan

Who hasn’t heard or used the expression, “Oh, it’s just a white lie?” I sure have. Why do we mitigate the lie we’ve done? Are there good and bad lies? Is it wise to lie sometimes? The answer is, “Yes.” Like so much in life, there’s a grey area and that is what I’d like to explore.

Infidelity at #DadChat

Posted on September 25, 2012 by Bruce Sallan

#DadChat is never afraid to tackle the tough topics. Tough is Infidelity. But, we had a relationship expert to take us through this chat – @AllanaPratt – Thursday, September 27 from 6:00 – 7:00 p.m. PT/9:00 – 10:00 p.m. ET. Note: Moms are ALWAYS welcome at #DadChat. If you missed this spirited discussion, follow the transcript!

We Asked Dr. Jennifer at #DadChat

Posted on September 11, 2012 by Bruce Sallan

Thursday evening, September 13 from 6:00 – 7:00 p.m. PT/9:00 – 10:00 p.m. ET was Open Mic at #DadChat. And, we had a special guest, psychologist Dr. Jennifer Weberman for Ask Dr. Jennifer. It was a spirited and fun exchange among all. Enjoy the transcript.

Generations

Posted on September 10, 2012 by Bruce Sallan

My boys over TEN years ago!

When my parents died, I realized that I was in many ways representing the most senior of generations in my small family. Thankfully, we still have my one older cousin, Sandy, but there are no other “senior” members left. However, I was fortunate to have married into a new family on my wife’s side, with my second marriage a few years ago.