Just A Guy Who Is Very Grateful

Category: Just A Guy

(Note: I consider this an early Thanksgiving-themed blog – enjoy)

I attended the Bar Mitzvah of a friend’s son recently.  This young man has some relatively severe learning disabilities.  Yet, his parents provided him with the sort of support that was full of love and understanding for him.  The rabbi adjusted the service to allow him full participation, within his limits, and it was as loving a right-of-passage as possible, with an equally classy and terrific party afterward.

Even the weather cooperated, as their theme was a rainbow and at just the right moment, with all of the guests gathered outside, the rabbi asked us to turn around. We saw the setting sun actually make e a slight rainbow, as if Industrial Light & Magic were hired to create it.

It was a beautiful event, but it couldn’t help but remind me of how lucky I am to have two boys without any apparent disabilities other than being teenagers.  Joking aside, I am sincerely very grateful for this good fortune of mine when I see so much hardship and trouble in the world as well as have friends who struggle with real issues with their children, like this friend.

Another of our friends that attended this truly joyous event has a child with a serious childhood disease that is largely incurable, so they live with constant fear, doctor’s appointments, and occasional hospitalizations for their son. Again,I’m very grateful my kids are healthy.

What do I deal with?  Well, I struggle with my older son not doing his chores.  My younger son likes to question me on everything I ask of him.  Both boys don’t eat their vegetables, keep their rooms as clean as they should, or go to bed exactly at their bedtimes.  Yup, we have it rough.  But, what do I know; I’m just a guy.