This Dad’s Double Standard

I was having coffee with an old friend the other morning, sitting outside, as the weather was warm, and the scenery equally pleasant.  We marveled at the abundance of attractive women that came and went.  At the same time, the attire of many of the younger girls shocked us.  We assumed they were young teens as they were young enough that they were being driven and accompanied by their moms.  One such young girl, to be charitable, was dressed completely trashy, wearing a very short tight skirt, and a top that left little to the imagination. read more

Just A Guy That Looks

You will always find a guy that looks at women.  Yes, there’s a time and place for doing it.  But we will also do it when it’s not the time and place.  It’s in our hard wiring.  Two recent outings with my wife brought this to mind – because, yes, sometimes I am a guy that looks.

First, we were driving at night and pulled alongside a line of (young) people waiting to get in a club.  My wife was driving but noticed that I “gazed” at the abundance of barely clad women. Now, of course, she would say, “slobbered.” read more